Real Estate Negotiation Strategies
Real Estate Negotiating Tips

You're in a strong bargaining position (meaning, you look particularly welcome to a seller) if:
You're an all-cash buyer
You're already pre-approved for a mortgage
You don't have a present house that has to be sold before you can afford to buy
You're able to close and take possession at a time that is especially convenient for the seller
In those circumstances, you may be able to negotiate some discount from the listed price. On the other hand, in a "hot" seller's market, if the perfect house comes on the market, you may want to offer the list price (or more) to beat out other early offers.
It's very helpful to find out why the house is being sold and whether the seller is under pressure. Keep these considerations in mind:
Every month a vacant house remains unsold represents considerable extra expense for the seller
If the sellers are divorcing, they may just want out quickly
Estate sales often yield a bargain in return for a prompt deal.
Earnest Money
This is a deposit that you give when making an offer on a house. A seller is understandably suspicious of a written offer that is not accompanied by a cash deposit to show "good faith." A REALTORĀ® or an attorney usually holds the deposit, the amount of which varies form community to community. This will become part of your down payment.
The Seller's response to your offer
You will have a binding contract if the seller, upon receiving your written offer, signs an acceptance, just as it stands, unconditionally. The offer becomes a firm contract as soon as you are notified of acceptance. If the offer is rejected, that's that, and the sellers could not later change their minds and hold you to it.
If the seller likes everything except the sale price, or the proposed closing date, or the basement pool table you want left with the property, you may receive a written counter-offer, with the changes the seller prefers. You are then free to accept or reject it or to even make your own counter-offer. For example, "We accept the counter-offer with the higher price, except that we still insist on having the pool table."
Each time either party makes any change in the terms, the other side is free to accept or reject it, or counter again. The document becomes a binding contract only when one party finally signs an unconditional acceptance of the other side's proposal.
Withdrawing a Real Estate Offer
Can you take back an offer made on a property? In most cases the answer is yes, right up until the moment it is accepted, or even, in some cases, if you haven't yet been notified of acceptance. If you do want to revoke your offer, be sure to do so only after consulting a lawyer who is experienced in real estate matters. You don't want to lose your earnest money deposit, or find yourself being sued for damages the seller may have suffered by relying on your actions.